肢体语言|掌握了这15种常见肢体语言,你也能成“读心专家”!( 三 )


"They typically display positive affect - a slight smile that accompanies direct eye contact, with a slow glance away, but still holding the smile.
“他们通常会表现出积极的情绪——微笑着直视对方 , 然后保持笑容将目光缓慢移开 。 ”
肢体语言|掌握了这15种常见肢体语言,你也能成“读心专家”!
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眉头没有向内聚拢上抬 , 那么他可能没有看上去那么悲伤
Psychologist Paul Ekman uses the term "reliable muscles" for the muscles in the face that you can't contract voluntarily.
心理学家保罗·艾克曼用“可靠的肌肉”来形容人们无法自如控制的面部肌肉 。
If you observe a person expressing sadness both verbally and facially, but the inner corners of his eyebrows are not going up and in, he may not be experiecing sadness at all. He's unable to contract these muscles voluntarily despite his best efforts.
如果你发现有人用语言和面部表情表达悲伤 , 但是他的眉头没有上抬聚拢 , 那么他可能根本不难过 。 尽管他已经尽了最大努力 , 但是他还是无法自如地收缩这些肌肉 。
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一半的面部表情比另一半明显 , 那么这可能不是真实的情绪
肢体语言|掌握了这15种常见肢体语言,你也能成“读心专家”!
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The vast majority of facial displays of emotion are bilateral - that is, they show up on both sides of the face equally. Next time you tell a joke, look to see if her smile is symmetrical when she laughs.
大部分表达情绪的面部表情都是对称的 , 也就是说 , 脸部两侧的表情是对等的 。 下次你再讲笑话时 , 看看对方的笑容是否是对称的 。
肢体语言|掌握了这15种常见肢体语言,你也能成“读心专家”!
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豪放的姿势意味着权力和成就感
If someone's leaning back and relaxed, they probably feel powerful and in control. In fact, research has found that even people born blind raise their arms in a V shape when they win a physical competition.
如果一个人放松地向后靠 , 那么他们可能感觉自己很强大 , 胜券在握 。 事实上研究发现 , 即使是天生的盲人 , 在体育竞赛中取胜时也会举起胳膊形成V字形 。
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耸肩是表示困惑的通用肢体信号
肢体语言|掌握了这15种常见肢体语言,你也能成“读心专家”!
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The shrug is a good example of a universal gesture that is used to show that a person doesn't know or doesn't understand what you are saying.
耸肩是一种通用的肢体语言 , 它表明一个人不知道或不明白你在说什么 。

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