同居|同居有3种,只有一种通往婚姻,甚至有一种通往单身。丨KY研究:你是哪种同居?( 四 )
今日互动:你是在什么情况下,决定开始同居生活的?或者,你会选择婚前同居吗?为什么呢?
以上,晚安啦 。
读完今天的文章,如果你还在犹豫是否要和你的ta步入同居生活,不妨看看“过来人”的ta们,又是如何看待婚前同居的呢?点击下方小程序卡片,听听ta们的故事吧!
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