原谅的七个原则,你会原谅伴侣撒谎吗?( 三 )


最后,分享一句我喜欢的话吧:
Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different.
原谅就是放下那个认为“过去可能会有所不同”的执念 。
既往之事总是无法挽回,而生活,还是要向前看 。
References:
Enright, R. (2015).Eight Keys to Forgiveness.New York: WW Norton.
Gordon, K. C., Hughes, F. M., Tomcik, N. D., Dixon, L. J., & Litzinger, S. C. (2009). Widening spheres of impact: The role of forgiveness in marital and family functioning.Journal of family Psychology,23(1), 1-13.
Lawler, K. A., Younger, J. W., Piferi, R. L., Billington, E., Jobe, R., Edmondson, K., & Jones, W. H. (2003). A change of heart: Cardiovascular correlates of forgiveness in response to interpersonal conflict.Journal of behavioral medicine,26(5), 373-393.
Plante, T. G. (2014).7 Rules of Forgiveness.Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/do-the-right-thing/201403/7-rules-forgiveness.

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